First of all this is not a movie review of James Brook movie "How Do You Know" with Reese Witherspoon and Paul Rudd etc.And this is absolutely nothing related to it.
This is a big question now playing on my mind.I can say I have this guy friends I've known years ago and still in touch with until today. They were all now family man. They were all describes as a almost perfect husband and a father. That's what everybody around them knows. Actually that's all of the people knows about those guys/man. They have a very perfect family to describe. How come their wives never knew about the facts that I've known. I'm wondering why didn't they knew neither felt! It's acceptable that if those sins done long before marriage but not! It was just happening currently!Worsts this is not the first time! How do I know? They told me. They were my friends and they trusted me and shocks I knew the people involved! Sometimes I wanna say no so as I am safe that I know nothing but they were letting me knew it or obviously showing it to my face. I have given totally good advices! As in totally good cause I am also a wife and I don't wanna experience same lies within my relationship if ever. But why did their wives never even felt somethings happening. One of the guys told me, a wife can only feel something is wrong if her man changes unusually. Gotcha! But still how come. I don't know how to convince these guys to be faithful to their wives and I am slowly feeling afraid of the secrets they were sharing to me.If only I can say them I don't wanna hear anything but least that I can do because they were my friends.
Man no.1= faithful loving husband loving father(as known by wife and maybe every one) but playing along with fire with a different girl (wife knew the girl)
Man no.2= faithful husband loving father , model family man to friends but has a complicated life now having two first baby in two different woman aside from original wife
Man no.3= happily married guy,so much in love with his wife (as all knows) still communicating with the unknown by all (except me;I know the girl cause they were both my friends way back in college) ex girlfriend
Man no.4= Happily committed living with current partner ( that's what all knows and observes) silently courting her dream girl since teenage years
Man no. 5= Proud loving husband and a father (but currently having an affair with an office mate)
I have two more to site but I can't, never asked permission yet. It's hard to keep secrets. I can't even share to my Huny because I don't want him to have an idea.lol. But Huny knew those 7 guy friends of mine personally. I share some details to him and relationship stories but not their sins. I just don't want to break their trusts.Before I posted it here, I asked permission. Since I don't name drop and never mentions any exact clues.
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Everybody's aware of these catastrophic radiation from Japan. Everybody's worried and afraid of it of coarse. I give vows to these guys that helps and trying their best to protect the mankind even if it means of suffering themselves. They were not saving only their country men but the whole world. I wonder how did these guys decides when they were ask for this kind of job. Is the invitation for this job is like an email campaigns spread to everyone offering a best livelihood offers. Still it's a heroic dedication not even thinking of the compensation but risking their own lives. Radiation has a lot of bad effect to human's body. Especially if it is a direct contact. Even if they wears a lot of protective personal equipments. We can never tell what will happen to them after grappling the said radiation.
These guys were real life heroes deserves a salute of mankind.
I have been trying to learn the other platform but seems that it was not meant for me. If that so, I will content myself here at blogger wherein I can almost say somehow I master it all. I am not a quitter when it comes to discovering new things but then again I have no choice. I have to minimize my time spending in front of a computer since my eyes were not doing good and it make me suffer much of giving me a severe headache. And in my current condition any type of pain will not be of help. I still have pending promises to Ferry about her blogs and I will surely make it but not that in an instant. And I know she will understand because she loves me. (mwuahness) Good thing to her even though she can afford a customizable logo design pricing , she still prefers my work and I appreciate it much of her trust to me. Two to Three hours a day enough to make her wishes for her blog be possible.
Hahaha I'm feeling it too much.lol My title seem to be bragging how I am important to my recent company. It's because they don't want to give me up and I am feeling it too much. I'm mean and I knew that duh!.lol! I am so much thankful that they did appreciated me and my effort . The operation manager keeps on reaching me and bargaining to me not just to leave the company. This maybe the result of my 2 months best performance I showed. I already submitted a resignation letter to my supervisor prior I leave work. The reason I didn't want to discuss it with the operation manager because I know she will not let go of me . She's so nice that even extent my benefits though I am not yet a regular employee. I appreciated it much but I don't think I will deserve it all since I am not sure if I can get back to the company after I gave birth.As much as I don't want to leave them I have no choice but to decide. I chose to instead of compromising the health of my soon first born. I have a very delicate pregnancy which I least expected. But for my baby's sake I will give up whatever I am with now just to take care of him/her. Besides this is also a strict rule of my hubby. For now I will content myself helping my hubby running the business and some pay per click services offered online that I can be part of. Here in the blogosphere I have heard a lot of work at home moms. If they can do it, well I have faith that I also can. Wish me luck. *winks*